cemetery small talk

There is one place that you won't find much "small talk."  The cemetery.  No one is there to shoot the breeze and talk about the weather.  Even when I go to the temple, there are people that engage in plenty of small talk.  It is bothersome.  Isn't there a place where we can go and focus on on the things that are eternally significant? Since I don't like small talk a great deal, you would think I would find the cemetery a desirable place.  I do.... most of the time. Sometimes I feel completely out of place; like I don't belong there.  Other times, I feel very much like I belong there.